My fiance is nearly 20 years older than me. It was ok when i was 20 and she was 40 and i had nothing. Now im 30 and she's 50 and we never have sex because she has arthritis and i dont want to hurt her plus she is very very very dry down there now. Its like living with my aunty. She has a bunch of grandkids since we met which costs me, she's always on some drama with her kids its exhausting.
Now a woman at work is making moves on me and i cant do anything about it because we all work together and my fiance watches the security cameras. I feel trapped. I want to leave but she conned me into getting into a bunch of debt this year.